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The Power of Guilt
I was speaking with a friend last week about a fairly significant event in my life. One in which for the first time, I had come across a seemingly, genuinely bad person. Of course I knew that there were people who are awful, murderers, rapists, etc., I know that, but this was the first time in my life that I knew someone who was only kind to serve a later purpose, who would hurt anyone to further an agenda, someone who was the exact opposite of anybody I had ever met. This person was awful to everyone I loved, they were hurtful and spiteful and mean, but much of their wrath was focused on a friend of ours. He got it the worst. I didn’t see how bad it was for him for a while, and it took me far too…
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The Starfish
In a world that desperately needs positivity, kindness and love, how do we do “our part?” What does it look like and how do we get started? These questions kind of haunt me. I work with truly brilliant people, not just intelligence-wise, which is true, but also brilliant in the way they change the community and make their mark in the world. No matter how much I long to make the world a better place, no matter the impact I want to make, that will never be my path. I’m a good helper and I love that in some small way I support their impact. Never has the question, “What…
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Holding on While Letting Go
As the mother of both a twelve year old and seventeen year old daughter, I find myself confused that my girls don’t still spend all of their time hanging off of my hip the way they used to. Don’t get me wrong –for teenagers they are sweet and love their mother, I’m one of the lucky ones, but I’m definitely not their whole world any more. If I’m honest, I am not as secure with that change as I’d like to be. I’m working on it, but it’s a struggle. When preparing for a new baby, you read all the things and you do all the things and you prepare…